I never said a high TFR means a vibrant society. A low TFR is indisputably the slow death of a society.
No this is a non-sequitur.
Low fertility only means that the affected society grows smaller. This is only equivalent to "slow death" when it persists for centuries until the society is actually dead.
Singapore was and is build on the back of immigrants. Replacing ourselves with kids instead of immigrants would be the big change.