That is one of the main reasons why I use Opera where password is filled only after I press special button.
But the approach depends on the browser software to figure out which button on the page is the login button, rather than relying on the user to figure it out. I've run into one or two websites where Opera got that wrong, meaning the password manager couldn't work.
Everything is a trade-off, I guess.
Basically Opera doesn't auto-complete unless you click a specific button once the page loads. Then Opera will not only auto complete the password form, but submit it as well.