Its the "rogue" part that offends me. As an american living in america I grew up this way, I'm marginally offended that hanging out with me would be considered analogous to traveling to the other side of the planet to the extreme opposite of american lifestyle.

Or a person with reasonably normal empathy (my wife?) seems to be able to figure me out without a PHD and years of study.

Also, like clockwork, right after the "othering" comes the "hate" and I'm not looking forward to that part. (Ah he's different than us... what next? Oh make fun of and bully of course, thats what the majority always does after they define an other!)