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The problem with being a "fixer" in relationships is if the other party is fixed, what they want changes, and often what they saw in the relationship isn't as relevant anymore. (to speculate from afar)

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I will point our that most relationships end in separation. Maybe the reason for the breakup was in their story. Maybe they just stopped liking each other. We can't know without OP telling us.

Some fixer’s lose purpose once partner is “fixed”

reminds me of the fixer in pulp fiction. Life of action, then off with a wink and a nod.

If not, maybe op can reframe and grab life by the horns.

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