I don't recall anyone in my town being overly angry when fiber internet dug up their front yards.

But the datacenter they couldn't stop has made national news multiple times.

Also, what wealth? "Please allow me to exploit your land for little benefit to you" isn't a great selling point.

Yes, it is a question. Obviously a balance must be struck but where the line is drawn will depend. The point about "ruining wealth opportunities" will likely rub a lot of people the wrong way even on a place like YCombinator forum

some of these projects impact surrounding homes and businesses. NIMBYs should definitely be aware and involved