> You can just ignore the EULA. Nobody is coming to get you.
You can, but it's not gonna gain broad attention.
> Why is nobody using it?
It's used for chips with a good open source backend (lattice, gatemate). But it's non-trivial to integrate with the vivado backend and doesn't bring many benefits when used as such.
> You can extract the timing information from Vivado. Such information is not copyrightable.
Yes
> You could also collaborate with someone with a really fast oscilloscope to gather some timing yourself
No. Especially not fast-fast and slow-slow corners.
> Even if you just get the connectivity data and bitstream format and no timing, that's massively useful for less-than-high-speed projects.
Not really, you need at least a rough worst-case estimate. Otherwise even trivial designs might not work.
> A single open source developer just has to make a contribution, doesn't have to do the whole thing in one go.
A large part (clocks, routing, LUTs, BRAM, IO, a basic timing model) has to work, otherwise it's not really usable.
It's really non-trivial to get to a basic usable point. I would estimate at least 4-5 very experienced people working on this 2-3 years. Nothing impossible, but also not something that easily happens.