HIV doesn't kill you, but it creates circumstances where other things will. Sleep is the same. You may not die from lack of sleep, but you die from the things it can cause. Effectively there's no difference.
For something so incredibly difficult to do (die from lack of sleep) it’s frankly crazy that most people here are saying it like it’s fact.
Lack of sleep doesn't kill you / does kill you in the same sense.
I do not believe this analogy really confused you. No one is saying they're the same and you're well aware of that.
As to the factual nature of the argument, I'll let you argue with Harvard Brain Institute, as I have no interest in this debate. https://brain.harvard.edu/hbi_news/why-severe-sleep-deprivat...