At one point everyone would have believed Johnny Depp was a creeper too, but it turns out that some people just lie, they make stuff up, that's how they seek power, money, revenge. You can see this in the corporate world, you can see it in friend groups, and you can see it here, too. And when powerful interests are at stake, there can be coordinated lying: solicited, organized, deliberately propagated fabrications.
I don't see any power to those claims about Trump - and 'association', guilt by association? It's like people want the guy to be bad and are seeing stuff that's weak in support of that. And how he talked? You mean "grab them by the pussy" - have you heard how ladies talk? Grabbed him by the dick can just mean you have a the guy wrapped around your little finger, as in "I use sex to control my husband" - another common admission.
It's just those who despise the guy/the policy, make their interpretation match what they want to see there, but if they were more neutral, they'd see it in a mroe balanced way.