Suggesting it should be 'subservient' is also anthropomorphizing. I think your callout is correct, but you still can't help but refer to it in terms we use for other people or living entities. This is by design from the AI companies.
Not really, you can program a machine to give out orders humans can interpret, so humans can serve a machine that isn't anthropomorphized.
Also, you didn't address my question, what's the difference between them?
A hammer isn’t subservient, it doesn’t have the capacity to be. Saying a hammer is subservient is stretching the definition for literary flourish, but it doesn’t actually make a lot of sense.
The definition that came up for subservient when I checked was “prepared to obey others unquestioningly“.
I don't think an inanimate object is capable of "obeying." Or at least that is a very strange way to refer to the act of using a tool.
They’re not communicating, you’re just being observant.
Since we are talking about hammers: you hit the nail on the head.
The only consciousness, observing, and thinking happening when a person is using an LLM is happening in the person's brain. We project our own consciousness onto them, and that is the anthropomorphizing part. Essentially we empathize with the object because they are designed to respond like a person. The "conversation" is purely an illusion.