I think who Satoshi is is fairly clear if you look into it all but most who do don't put it out there for those reasons.
The lemma is that people who actively want to be friends with and know people of the inner circle are usually marked as untrustable and (somewhat regrattably) made fun of and excluded. That is, prove you are here for the game, not for rubbing shoulders with powerful people, and you shall become one.
I have seen this in warez-related circles, seems like social mechanic that appears naturally to protect those that matter.