Interesting project, but if you're only building an API, using a much more lightweight combo such as nodejs + express seems better.
Express is decent enough, but it's barely an equal to Merb.
If we need to build another product from scratch again though, we'll definitely be faster with nodejs. I understand that nodejs programming seems strange/hard to do in a non-spagetthi way to some people, but really, after a few months it is not hard.
Without all that callback spaghetti, how are you supposed to scale to roflmillions of users?
That's a tradeoff, and overall we're happy with it.