I think it's because both sides are talking about different things. If you go in expecting it is good enough to make developers obsolete today(reasonable impression to get from the way a lot of people hype it) you would be disappointed and after first couple of tries every few months you would probably not try it much with next generations. Reasonable if it's considered a dichotomy.

But a lot of people excited about new generations(including me, now) are not seeing it as a dichotomy but rather a spectrum where models are getting better and indeed once a year or even 6 months at times there comes a sudden growth which feels like an inflection point from what came before. Practically, it's a tool like any other, you evaluate it based on if it's worth the effort and cost for the benefit you get from it and if it is and has a good DX you use it. If the calculation doesn't work for you, it doesn't. For me, it has gone from a novelty, to good for some kind of quick manual search, to I guess it can debug some kind of errors at times in very specific conditions, to hey I think I am getting a bit addicted to autocomplete in IDE provided by them even if I don't use them for anything intelligent but it's becoming indispensable now but only this part, to it's good for areas I lack expertise in, to agentic sucks I will stick with discussing algorithms and architecture with it on greenfield projects, to holy shit it can do agentic decently well now, I am skeptic to give it access more than in limited cases, to now I am getting close to letting it run free on my device in not so distant future I guess. Some of these were big jumps, at each point I was skeptical of growth. Everytime I thought now the growth will slow down from days 2k context window to millions now. From basic chat completion to working on complex adaptive systems, game theoretic modelling, heurestics and constraint modelling and other things I throw at it. I am still needed in the loop, it can be so smart at times and then will do something so stupid, but the frequency of stupidity is rapidly decreasing. I am still needed, I don't think it could accomplish alone all that it has done for me. But I do at times at night remain awake reflecting on my self worth for the potential day when I don't add that value. When I have a harder time keeping up.

Also had someone told me not in even 2019 that in 2026 we could have NLP models do what they do today, I would have posited it all as sci-fi and here I am waking up in awe of the world we live in and how quickly we adapt.