A simple app could be used by parties on both ends of the message—an app that relies on an associated drive to act as the pad.
If you become aware that one of the two matched drives has been compromised (stolen perhaps by an outside party), you destroy its partner.
(Perhaps too you can design the drive in such a way as to make it non-trivial to copy—you more or less need possession of the drive itself. That makes it unlikely for there to be a 3rd drive the two parties are unaware of.)