https://stripe.com/resources/more/what-is-a-card-account-upd...
You can sometimes ask your bank to issue a card and not ping the updater service, but tier one support tends… not to know about it at all.
There was a lawsuit about a decade ago where a company was owed about $500k in ad fraud refunds and Google kept saying they had paid it, it ended up being an incomplete part of their software that had inadvertently withheld $75 million!
https://www.businessinsider.com/google-emails-adtrader-lawsu...
You can create as many virtual cards as you want. And surprisingly, I've rarely encountered a vendor that rejects them. I set one up for pretty much every recurring service charge, just because it's so easy to do.
It costs a few hundred a year for personal banking, but if you register an LLC (which in MO costs ~$10) you can use your EIN to get a business account. Did it a couple times, once for my non-profit and once for my consulting LLC.