Fair points honestly, and ones thats been going through my mind constantly, and like Alan Watts says, we are human-beings not human-doings, and I dig that.

I think that for me, creating this site was about making myself uncomfortable to the point of, if I game, it's about relaxation and lesiure, and not something I do because I have no way other way to spend the weekend, going out and making friends gives me anxiety so I'll just spend the entire weekend at home gaming all day for 2 days.

I still game with my kids, but we play coach none addictive games on nintendo, over the course of years I realised I can't really balance stuff like dota.

as for your last point, that's actually a really really cool idea! might add it =]

Thank you for your feedback!!