Merely looking like those who hold power is, in fact, a huge advantage.
Let me change the subject slightly, people who are tall and good looking have more opportunity and success than those that aren't. No one, even you, are making purely rational decisions based on merit. All of us make decisions that are influenced by things we aren't aware of.
This is obviously a tough issue, but edge cases are important. There is too much noise in the statistics.
Imagine that. All kinds of people leaving in poverty and having disadvantaged lives.
White Americans constitute 74% of America.
Thus African Americans are more than twice as likely to live under the poverty line. Those are not I odds I would like to gamble with had I been born black.
You won a lottery when you were born.
Is anyone really against the idea that all 49 million need help?
In these circumstances, some of us disagree with you.