People are putting 12 year olds in car seats!?
In the UK the limit is 135cm, which is about the right height for the average 9-year-old, so you're talking about a very small 12-year-old indeed - a good 15cm shorter than average.
In NSW the guide is the person should be > 145cm which is somewhere between age 9 and 14 for girls.
https://www.transport.nsw.gov.au/roadsafety/parents/child-ca...
So the guidelines say one thing, but I'd be surprised if a majority of parents are still putting their kids in them even by age 10, let alone 12.