IMO the kind of person who only knows Spring and doesn't understand modern JEE is exactly the kind of person you don't want to recruit.
The same is true for Micronaught or Quarkus. Learn the frameworks. But they are not a new open standard.
People don't really talk about Jakarta EE as "the standard". Haven't been doing that for quite some time.
You learn it so you don't hand Spring the ultimate monopoly. I thought we all didn't like monopolies? Why give Broadcom one?
Newer frameworks like Quarkus are specifically built for container usage and applications built with it are a bit faster and smaller than Spring boot.
It looks like the industry is moving away from architectures like EE. The desire now is more like a Go deployment: single, self contained deployable. There are make frameworks that support this goal. Maybe EE is one of them, but it's not essential like it was in the early 2000s.
EE doesn't exclude that model at all.
For the most part, maybe like 99%, the Jakarta APIs are agnostic of what the deployment model is. They are APIs to validate input, service HTTP requests, store data in databases, look up roles, connect to identity providers, etc etc.
But is it what everybody really wants? To have a single choice? GlassFish provides a choice for those that don't want to become stuck with the "only" option that everybody uses. Java itself provides a lot of options - Oracle JDK, Azul JDK, Corretto JDK and many others. And that's a good thing. Options in frameworks and application servers are a good thing too. The best option wins. Except, there's rarely the best option for every case. And it's good to have all the other options too, in case the most popular option isn't a good one for you.
Spring just made things easy. It also had only one implementation, so you couldn’t be confused because a deployment descriptor worked on one platform and not another. Some random blog post on setup always worked when Spring was in use. If you were following a WebLogic cookbook, good luck on Websphere.
In the end, Easy always wins. Make something hard easier to use, the world will beat a path to your doorway.
FWIW Wasm is hitting kubernetes because that's what customers are explicitly asking for, and the majority of enterprise Wasm-on-k8s afopters are doing so precisely because they want to eradicate Spring bloat and the associated supply chain risks from their engineering orgs.
Also, are you sure you are talking about Kubernetes performance over there?