how often did you actually go to these hours?
put another way, they showed up and asked questions and got info -- and you didn't. that's not privilege, that's effort
put another way, they showed up and asked questions and got info -- and you didn't. that's not privilege, that's effort
To answer your question, I don't recall ever going to "office hours", as I was generally a top student with minimal effort and an autodidact, but I learned about it through friends. Having parents who are both professors also gave me a front-row seat to how common this was.