> The war has multiple goals.

One of which is explicitly not Iran's nuclear capacity, as confirmed by one of the heads of state invading.

> Because normal people can understand the difference between a mistake and intentional acts.

Normal people can also understand that some things are too serious to pass off as "oopsie". We have terms like "manslaughter" or "aggravated murder" for when your reckless negligence leads to loss of human life. You are still responsible for the murders you cause when you take actions with intent that you know will lead to people dying without intending any specific one of those deaths.