I moved on, not because Rails failed me, but because the things I started building next (Streaming infra, APIs behind proxies, lots of concurrent HTTP work, infrastructure tooling, AI/ML) just fit better in other languages. I pick tools by the problem, not loyalty.
What I notice in this thread is a lot of "Rails vs X" framing when the real answer is boring: use Rails (if you like the vision and Ruby) when the complexity is in the data model and business logic. Use something else when it's in concurrency or infrastructure. The one-person-framework pitch is real, but it's for a specific shape of problem.
Also: God i miss writing Ruby, its a fantastically and beautiful language.
Also: Blast from the past: Ruby is a great DSL for Rails.