I agree. There were only 2 game changing upgrades for me. One was hard disk to SSD. The other was x86 laptop to M1.
Back in the MS-DOS days, the amount of data needed to be read off a disk while the OS booted was negligible, so a second or two on a fast 486 felt amazing compared to the incredibly slow grind of watching code execute on an 8086 or slow 80286. Software was still in the space of having to run tolerably on an 8086, so the added resources of a newer faster machine actually did improve the feel of the system.
M1 allowed me to do things I thought was impossible which was fast, fanless, cool, and extremely long battery life.