People who work on IDEs / text editors can work on tooling and integrating with languages as they become popular (or before), but developing an IDE from scratch with a language and continuing to support it seems like a waste of time when I personally would never really consider using it and its chances of being a decent text editor are slim.
Which is all not to say that I definitely do like coordination between the two camps.
So I guess I made two arguments, one that I like what I use and prefer to keep using it over having some new perhaps questionable tool, and two that it's a non-trivial amount of work that has already been done, which I feel is better spent by other external parties rather than core devs.
The history has shown that languages developed without concerns of IDE were the most successful or the most influential languages.
I don't doubt you, but I do wonder at your benchmarks for success and influence.
FWIW, I use Emacs, which is an editor with a programming language embedded. So does that make me a language maven (as I like emacs lisp and playing with it) or a tool maven, because I am learning about the tool I use to edit code (and almost everything else textual)?