Quality kid memory for me. I also remember watching another kid click on an ad for a free ipod and then enter in his home address and other personal info.
ISTR the brief time you mention calling these things emoticons.
:-) and friends were "emoticons" for decades.
Outlook was doing this even 3-4 years ago.
But they do use Unicode emojis now.
(I was into computers at the time but didn't see the point of IM apps or forums when IRC and Usenet already existed.)
I miss those animated smileys.
Even WhatsApp and other popular social messaging platforms (Instagram, Signal, etc.) don't have them. Instead, we got GIFs (whose online gallery takes ages to load in WhatsApp, in recent months, at least on my phone) and animated stickers. sigh
If you want a trip down memory lane.
The control part is blocking third-party apps to toggle the hidden setting. If you enable unsupported features using a third-party app, the expectation of polish is obviously void. It would even be fine if Apple refused to carry apps like that in their polished, curated store, if they didn't forbid users from installing apps any other way.
The iPhone was a big departure from that.
I also think users should be in control of granting or denying that kind of special access, but that's a separate discussion.
And having emojis work "mostly" but not "everywhere" would have been something Jobs would have entirely been against - if they wouldn't work over normal non-iMessage SMS, for example, or not work reliably.
Remember the "emojigate" issues where the same emoji would display differently on different phones and make a funny message seem threatening, etc?
If I recall correctly, it took two years for them to add cut and paste to iOS.
Eventually, I decided that was a complete waste of time and now I use words.
BTW, one of the things that turned me off from emojis is they looked like the stickers 2nd graders would use, along with a Playmobil look.