Why does it have to be doom and gloom. Serious question. When we plant seeds they bear fruit and not all fruit is poison.
AI development game theory is extremely similar to the game theory behind nuclear arms development, but worse (nuclear weaponry was born from Human General Intelligence, and is therefore a subset of the potential of AI development). Failing to be the most capable actor could put one in a position of permanent loss of autonomy/agency at the whims of more capable actors.
Unfortunately, as a species we seem to be abandoning morality as a general principle. Everything is guided by cold hard rationality rather than something greater than us.
I think that much is fairly clear from AI.
Why would an AI which is smarter than humans care about a ridiculous belief like "We own you"?