Nope. Pushing on the end of the beam sends a pressure wave through the beam. The button gets pushed when the wave reaches the other end. Wave travels significantly slower than light.
So, in the best case, this method of communication is equivalent to communicating with electromagnetic waves. And they have a speed limit: the speed of light :)
So this wouldn't be faster than light communication.
Yes it does. And in fact that is the case: The beam has compressed. A fully rigid beam is impossible.