Did you try adding a Cache-Control response header?
Is this where all that hardware for AI projects is going? To data centers that just uncritically hits the same URL over and over without checking if the content of a site or page has chanced since the last visit then and calculate a proper retry interval. Search engine crawlers 25 - 30 years ago could do this.
Hit the URL once per day, if it chances daily, try twice a day. If it hasn't chanced in a week, maybe only retry twice per week.
And it's quite a trivial feature at that.