The success of the lactose tolerance mutation may be partly due to sexual selection[1]. It's been proposed that neoteny[2] is a key feature of human evolution. The ability to drink milk as an adult is a neotenous trait, and it may have been "accidentally" selected for when other beautiful features were sexually selected.
David Rothenberg's book, Survival of the Beautiful[3], argues that biologists are sometimes "blinded" by natural selection and ignore sexual selection.
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[1] - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection
[2] - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny
[3] - http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/thoughtomics/2012/10/25/...