"...part of “an insular, hypermasculine culture” in which “women are seen as totally redundant and completely unnecessary.” (A woman who once worked for a gay Republican startup founder describes it like this: “You get about the same amount of misogyny, but not the sexual harassment. So that’s nice.”)"
Tried many times to explain this to women - cis straight men are not your blockers, especially fathers.
Men who legit see you as redundant are.
"Allies" has been such an DEI Orwellian term.
Same with "racism" - up is down, left is right. Discrimination between Asians? Totally fine, zero attention, can't be true.