you can compile many weakly typed high level languages to machine code and their performance will still suck.
java's language design simply prohibits some optimizations that are possible in other languages (and also enables some that aren't in others).
This isn't really true - at least not beyond some marginal things that are of little consequence - and in fact, Java's compiler has access to more context than pretty much any AOT compiler because it's a JIT and is allowed to speculate optimisations rather than having to prove them.
Precisely right, but the entire point is that it doesn't need to. The optimisation is applied in such a way that when it is wrong, a signal triggers, at which point the method is "deoptimised".
That is why Java can and does aggressively optimise things that are hard for compilers to prove. If it turns out to be wrong, the method is then deoptimised.
The main optimisation is inlining, which, by default, is done to the depth of 15 (non-trivial) calls, even when they are virtual, i.e. dispatched dynamically, and that's the main speculation - that a specific callsite calls a specific target. Then you get a large inlined context within which you can perform optimisations that aren't speculative (but proven).
If you've seen Andrew Kelley's talk about "the vtable boundary"[1] and how it makes efficient abstraction difficult, that boundary does not exist in Java because compilation is at runtime and so the compiler can see through vtables.
But it's also important to remember that low-level languages and Java aim for different things when they say "performance". Low-level languages aim for the worst-case. I.e., some things may be slower than others (e.g. dynamic vs. static dispatch) but when you can use the faster construct, you are guaranteed a certain optimisation. Java aims to optimise something that's more like the "average case" performance, i.e. when you write a program with all the most natural and general construct, it will, be the fastest for that level of effort. You're not guaranteed certain optimisations, but you're not penalised for a more natural, easier-to-evolve, code either.
The worst-case model can get you good performance when you first write the program. But over time, as the program evolves and features are added, things usually get more general, and low level languages do have an "abstraction penalty", so performance degrades, which is costly, until at some point you may need to rearchitect everything, which is also costly.
Although there's no doubt that the lack of flattened object is the last remaining real performance issue for Java vs. a lower-level language, and it specifically impacts programs of the kind you're writing. Valhalla will take care of that.