So, under this reasoning, you are saying all bootstrapped entrepreneurs are average and a waste of life, simply because they choose to go it alone, and not take funding. Hmm, what was that? Something about man, made of out straw...
I think its awesome you are self-employed, but as far I am concerned it isn't a startup in the sense I think of them, geared for massive growth.
Studies show Facebook has created over 500,000 high level, high paying jobs.
This is a social network for God's sake, not a coal mine.
I don't have a problem with growth, or with exits, but I'm not a fan of what I'll call the house-of-cards startup model.