"funding the world's defence' - this kind of thinking is whats turning everyone against you. Ask the venezeulans, iraqis, iranians, nicuaraguans, vietnamese, afghanis, panamains, etc if they want your "world defence".
I didn’t support any of those wars. I wasn’t even alive/of voting age for most of them.
Americans intrinsically benefit from imperialism, whether you support its constant imperialism or not (look at Yemen, Syria, Lybia for more recent examples, it truly is constant), if you do not take direct action against it you are complicit.