> I think the point of a social network is to stay connected to people with whom you are comfortable being yourself.

The problem is that people you barely know add you, and if you reject the friend request you're indeterminately labeled as an asshole. This has happened to me several times to an extent where I was called out on it in person. My rule of thumb was that I don't add people from whom I wouldn't appreciate a call at 3am.

I had to break this because apparently the fact that it says "friend" doesn't repel people who I haven't seen in years. SO right now I'm using lists and I've put tons of people in 'restricted' but still, this mentality is annoying as hell.

Regarding family: I'm friends with my grandmother and I hate it. She doesn't understand most of the stuff that I post about but she still comments stupid things on my posts and pictures. Well now she's on restricted but if she'd ever found out I'd be in trouble.