I appreciate the nod to whole milk, which has been repeatedly shown to be associated with _lower_ obesity in children. E.g. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31851302/, many other studies.
"There's only one thing I hate more than lying: Skim milk. Which is water that's lying about being milk"
If you can't tell the difference, then it's been a long time since you've had whole milk.