How is preventing delivery of legitimate email due to the sender's software being misconfigured "good for you"?
Also, RFC 5321 [0] says:
> SMTP clients that [...] do not maintain queues for retrying message transmissions that initially cannot be completed, may otherwise conform to this specification but are not considered fully-capable.
> In many situations and configurations, the less- capable clients discussed above SHOULD be using the message submission protocol (RFC 4409) rather than SMTP.