You’re not alone. I point this out to other millenials and gen z all the time and it’s usually the first time they learn about it.
(I bet it is described in the manual; but we will never know - I also have not read it)
Unless you’re a professional driver - you’re in your right. We dont have to learn how to use UI made for people. If that’s the case we could just read where the fricking inlet is.
It’s the design that is bad