Randi Harper a.k.a. FreeBSD Girl was interviewed for the FLOSS Weekly podcast and she said that every minute spent on discussing gender issues in technology is a wasted minute that should be better spent building free software.
Unless you truly believe that there are no issues, this attitude is just intellectual laziness. Whether it comes from a woman or not is irrelevant.
I'm not saying there's no room for talking, but at this point no one is bringing anything new to the table; I'm saying if you want to solve a problem do something about it. Lead by example.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Spy_(1965_TV_series)
> I Spy's contribution to American television and society by being the first series to star a black and a white actor together,
> (Culp revealed in his audio commentary on the DVD release that he and Cosby agreed early on that "Our statement is a non-statement" regarding race, and the subject was never discussed again.) As a strait-laced Rhodes scholar fluent in many languages, Cosby's "Scotty" was really the brains of the team. His partner (Culp) was the athlete and playboy who lived by his wits.
Then, of course, came The Cosby Show's years of illustrating a non-stereotypical black family, almost never talking directly about it.
This is not against men having a view. But a woman is far more likely to understand sexism AGAINST women - because of (shock horror) being women.
Next!
You should probably not bother trying to argue from a position of credibility really.