A library that records how much memory is allocated to a string along with the pointer isn't a necessity.
Most people who write in C professionally are completely used to it although the footgun is (and all of the others are) always there lurking.
You'd generally just see code like this:-
char hostname[20];
...
strncpy( hostname, input, 20 );
hostname[19]=0;
The problem obviously comes if you forget the line to NUL that last byte AND you have a input that is greater than 19 characters long.(It's also very easy to get this wrong, I almost wrote `hostname[20]=0;` first time round.)
I remember debugging a problem 20+ years ago on a customer site with some software that used Sybase Open/Server that was crashing on startup. The underlying TDS communications protocol (https://www.freetds.org/tds.html) had a fixed 30 byte field for the hostname and the customer had a particularly long FQDN that was being copied in without any checks on its length. An easy fix once identified.
Back then though the consequences of a buffer overrun were usually just a mild annoyance like a random crash or something like the Morris worm. Nowadays such a buffer overrun is deadly serious as it can easily lead to data exfiltration, an RCE and/or a complete compromise.
Heartbleed and Mongobleed had nothing to do with C string functions. They were both caused by trusting user supplied payload lengths. (C string functions are still a huge source of problems though.)