If you want reality, go there in person and stop looking at photos. Viewing imagery is a fundamentally different type of experience.
We’ve had similar debates about art using miniatures and lens distortions versus photos since photography was invented — and digital editing fell on the lens trick and miniature side of the issue.
Portrait photography -- no, people don't look like that in real life with skin flaws edited out
Landscape photography -- no, the landscapes don't look like that 99% of the time, the photographer picks the 1% of the time when it looks surreal
Staged photography -- no, it didn't really happen
Street photography -- a lot of it is staged spontaneously
Product photography -- no, they don't look like that in normal lighting
A lot of armchair critics on the internet who only go out to their local park at high noon will say they look fake but they're not.
There are other elements I can spot realism where the armchair critic will call it a "bad photoshop". For example, a moon close to the horizon usually looks jagged and squashed due to atmospheric effects. That's the sign of a real moon. If it looks perfectly round and white at the horizon, I would call it a fake.