A hill I will die on is that React is a framework.
React's Wikipedia page says "React ... is a free and open-source front-end JavaScript library", and has no mention of Framework.
Why die on a hill that it "is" something it says it isn't?
There's plenty of guru who say that they are the reincarnation of Jesus and/or Buddha, doesn't mean that we have to take their word for it.
In the same vein, North Korea is officially the "Democratic People's Republic of Korea", even though it's obviously not a democracy.
Because I think they're wrong about that.
If you'd prefer a different metaphor this is windmill I will tilt at.
To provide a little more of a rationale: React code calls the code I write - the JSX and the handlers and suchlike.
It's also pretty uncommon to see React used at the same time as other non-React libraries that handle UI stuff.
Most importantly, the culture and ecosystem of React is one of a framework. You chose React at the start of a project and it then affects everything else you build afterwards.
In another comment I used the example of rails as a kind of canonical 'framework' that can potentially do everything for you full stack, and django is in the same category, juxtaposed against something like React that cannot.
To that, I think your last paragraph is the one I agree with most closely. It's true, but only for the view part of the app, right? I think that's where I get stuck on stretching to calling it a framework.
I guess I can see it if you're defining your view/client as a separate logical entity from the rest of the stack. Which is totally reasonable. But I guess just not how I think about it.