> take memory snapshots after each step in a workflow
Don't do this. Just give people explicit boundaries of where their snapshots occur, and what is snapshotted, so they have control both over durability and performance. Make it clear to people that everything should be in the chain of command of the snapshotting framework: e.g no file-local or global variables. This is already how people program web services but somehow nobody leans into it.
The thing is, if you want people to understand durability but you also hide it from them, it will actually be much more complicated to understand and work with a framework.
The real golden ticket I think is to make readable intuitive abstractions around durability, not hide it behind normal-looking code.
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