Perhaps a spicy patch would involve some kind of meeting. Or maybe in a mentor/mentee situation where you'd want high-bandwidth communication.
I was in a team in 2006 where we did the regular, 2-approve-code-reviews-per-change-proposal (along with fully integrated CI/CD, some of it through signed email but not full diffs like Linux patchsets, but only "commands" what branch to merge where).
It's probably also fairly expensive to do.
There are pros & cons to both sides. As you point out it's quite expensive in terms of time to do the in person style. Getting several people together is a big hassle. I've found that the code reviews themselves, and what people get out of them, are wildly different though. In person code reviews have been much more holistic in my experience, sometimes bordering on bigger picture planning. And much better as a learning tool for other people involved. Whereas the diff style online code review tends to be more focused on the immediate concerns.
There's not a right or wrong answer between those tradeoffs, but people need to realize they're not the same thing.
It also increases the coverage area of code that each developer is at least somewhat familiar with.
On a side note, I would love if the default was for these code reviews to be recorded. That way 2 years later when I am asked to modify some module that no one has touched in that span, I could at least watch the code review and gleem something about how/why this was architect-ed the way it was.
Probably spend more time on it, but would share the understanding and alignment.