> For concreteness, a game requiring 6 bits of information to identify the perfect matching will take 6 steps on average, and may sometimes require many more
I'm not following your logic. Consider the setup we actually have:
1. You get to ask a series of yes/no questions. (Ignoring the matchups.)
2. Each question can produce, in expectation, up to one bit of information.
3. In order to achieve this maximum expectation, it is mathematically necessary to use questions that invariably do produce exactly one bit of information, never more or less. If your questions do not have this property, they will in expectation produce less than the maximum amount of information, and your expected number of steps to the solution will increase, which contradicts your stated goal of minimizing that quantity.
You get the minimum number of steps needed in expectation by always using questions with maximum entropy. Yes. But those questions never have any variation in the amount of entropy they produce; a maximum entropy strategy can never take more - or fewer - steps than average.¹
¹ Unless the number of bits required to solve the problem is not an integer. Identifying one of three options requires 1.585 bits; in practice, this means that you'll get it after one question 1/3 of the time and after two questions the other 2/3 of the time. But identifying one of 128 options requires 7 bits, you'll always get it after 7 questions, and you'll never be able to get it after 6 questions. (Assuming you're using a strategy where the expected number of questions needed is 7.)