I do actually give VPN access to my mother that is not technically competent but I have full access to her computer and locked her down as much as possible
But no, Tailscale did not pay me for this comment. I do happen to know someone that works there though.
Entirely missing the point that setting up a VPN exit node on your own or someone else's connection is a crazily esoteric super weird nerdy thing outside of communities like HN, and Tailscale on an Apple TV box will not only work but automatically update itself with no intervention on your part, and that the person whose house it is in needs extremely minimal technical skill to do what you tell them to over the phone.
Thanks again, devilbunny
You're very welcome.