> You keep trying to take contrieved examples to prove your (odd) point but that does not work because you are trying to prove something that is false. I don't understand why you are doing that... Too much Kool-Aid is bad for health.
No, you are.
Your example was Afghanistan. The only Afghans coming to Europe in any quantities (small though they are) did so because of western intervention in Afghanistan, and even then a lot of those people were locals who worked with us in our attempts to change it and who had to flee because America didn't care any more.
America *used to be*, past tense, a friend of Europe. Now it's made it clear it thinks it is our suzerain, that we should bow to its will, for half us to be under its sphere of influence and throw the other half under the bus to Russia.
Even before Trump, American governance hates European social policy. We're "socialists", and "socialist" is akin to "communism", and "communism" means we must be living in dictatorships "just like Stalin", those comments pop up even here with enough frequency to make a pattern. That, plus Europe's lack of freedom to bear arms, and that we have such different perspectives on libel, that some of our nations even have (had until recently) blasphemy laws. Every time I see an issue in America that's uniquely American, where Europe doesn't have that problem, someone suggests America copies Europe, a whole bunch of Americans chime in to say that America is "special" and can't possibly, doesn't matter if that's school shootings or broadband access or trains, they're actively hostile to learning from our experiences.
The current US administration is *actively hostile* to us and our ways of life and arrogant enough to not care to learn from our successes. Their hostility is both as a trade issue (e.g. wanting us to give up car rules so US vehicles are allowed when they'd be physically unsafe on our roads), and in terms of our internal and external affairs, where the recent national security strategy document is essentially calling for regime change in Europe.
The EU values something very close to Westphalian sovereignty. The USA under Trump, does not.
Trump is to Canada and Greenland, and by extension their allies across NATO i.e. us, what Xi Jinping is to Taiwan and their allies: hostile.
And a "Kool-Aid" reference? That both dates you and tells me you're fairly American-centric. If you think the current form of the USA is a good system to be promoted across Europe, you're drinking the poison'd cup.