Back when I was a sysadmin (sort of 2007-2010), the preference of a colleague (RIP AJG...) who ran a lot of things before my time at the org, was FreeBSD, and I quickly understood why. We ran Postgres on 6.x as a db for a large Jira instance, while Jira itself ran on Linux iirc because I went with jrockit that ran circles around any JVM at the time. Those Postgres boxes had many years of uptime, locked away in a small colo facility, never failed and outlived the org that got merged and chopped up. FreeBSD was just so snappy, and just kept going. At the same time I ran ZFS on FreeBSD as our main file store for NFS and whatnot, snapshots, send/recv replication and all.
And it was all indeed on Supermicro server hardware.
And in parallel, while our routing kit was mostly Cisco, I put a transparent bridging firewall in front of the network running pfSense 1.2 or 1.3. It was one of those embedded boxes running a Via C3/Nehemiah, that had the Via Padlock crypto engine that pfSense supported. Its AES256 performance blew away our Xeons and crypto accelerator cards in our midrange Cisco ISRs - cards costing more than that C3 box. It had a failsafe Ethernet passthrough for when power went down and it ran FreeBSD. I've been using pfSense ever since, commercialisation / Netgate aside, force of habit.
And although for some things I lean towards OpenBSD today, FreeBSD delivers, and it has for nearly 20 years for me. And, as they say, it should for you, too.