Hmm, the Go GC is really quite capable, so I wonder what kind of pathological load it was being presented with. Even then, when the GC "fails" it means elevated CPU load from collection.
The main thing I can think of would be the application "leaking" by having unintentional references (or worse, actually leaking through cgo bindings), or trashing the allocator to cause temporary spikes in between cleanups.
However, while I don't think Go was actually to blame here, I would never use native UI bindings to a language that isn't 1:1 compatible with the original design and memory management principles, as such bindings get disproportionaly large and complex. It just sets you up for a bad time.
This sounds to me like leaking resources from the binding. Which binding did you use and how did you manage it's lifetime?
Recently for a specific purpose I was reviewing options including Tauri, various WebView bindings, and in the end had to admit that Electron is probably the best approach in terms of feature set, development speed, etc.
Which bindings did you use ?