They are the same pressures. They occur in the same proportions.
Children are just really bad at it so it is extremely obvious. The rituals do not disappear when you turn 18. They do not disappear when you turn 98.
Children are just really bad at it so it is extremely obvious. The rituals do not disappear when you turn 18. They do not disappear when you turn 98.
That's one hell of a claim to make:
Have you really had work environments where half your co-workers refused to talk to you? For months, if not years?
Have you ever been shoved down to the ground and punched repeatedly?
Have you ever had a co-worker chase you with a knife?
Have you ever had a co-worker set off a bomb to get out of work early?
Have you ever had a co-worker steal your wallet?
I can safely say I saw all of these going to public school, and have never encountered any of that behavior in the office.
Every actual human with lived experience in society knows, that real life is much more diverse than school. In school, there’s at best a few cliques and mostly a single social hierarchy. After school, even during student years, but even more so when entering the workforce, there’s incredible variety of social hierarchies to climb, skills to learn and excel within, and career paths to take.
Zero comparison to school.