- actually allow privacy, even from apple itself. Like turn off telemetry, not just anonymize it. and opt-in, not opt-out.
- install apps without asking permission
- allow access to your data, for example to export your imessages
Just in general be respectful and polite
For me, I’ve been fine with bean-counter Cook. MacBooks and iPhones are not perfect, but I strongly prefer them to the competition.
It's pretty explicit in intent.
When you first use CarPlay there are consent screens so there are definitely people out there who have picked the wrong one.
some cannot be disabled ("anonymized")
some is still opt-out
just off the top of my head on iphone: settings -> search -> help apple improve search