I often crunch 'biggish data' on a single node using duckdb (because I love using the modern style of painless and efficient SQL engines).
I don't use delta or iceberg (because I haven't needed to; I'm describing what I do, not what you can do :)), but rather just iterate over the underlying parquet files using filename listing or wildcarding. I often run queries on BigQuery and suck down the results to a bunch of ~1GB local parquet files - way bigger than RAM - that I can then mine in duckdb using wildcarding. Works great!
I'm in a world where I get into the weeds of 'this kind of aggregation works much faster on Bigquery than duckdb, or vice versa, so I'll split my job into this part of sql running on Bigquery then feeding into this part running in duckdb'. It's the fun end of data engineering.